New Delhi - Post Report Question and Answers

Is this a good city for LGBT expatriates? Why or why not?

Questionable. - Apr 2024


While there’s plenty to do socially, and Delhi expats will accept and welcome you, homosexuality only recently became legal and is definitely not accepted by most Indians. - Jul 2020


The western embassies have a large acceptance of LGBT personnel and I have not heard of any problems. Cross-dressing beggars are common in some parts of the city and they seem to be doing fine. - Jul 2019


Imagine a time warp that sends you back to the year 1963, where gays stayed in the closet and polite people didn't talk about "homosexuality." Now, add a draconian law that allows for broad police power to arrest LGBT individuals for "unnatural sex" and you have the heady brew which is being gay in India as an expat. When I checked into the Embassy with my partner(who is 9 years younger than I am) everyone asked if my son was ready for school. There is an LGBT expat group populated mostly by older dead-eyed gay men in long-distance open relationships, trying desperately to arrange some fleeting liaison before their boyfriends return for a 72 hour stint. - Dec 2017


Not really. India is not supportive of LGBT people in general and I believe homosexuality is technically illegal. Embassy workers do come with same-sex partners, but need to be discreet locally. - Mar 2017


I think this would be a tough place for LGBT expats because of the local culture, especially if you're single. - Feb 2017


Maybe not the best, but not bad? - Nov 2016


Gay life exists, but it is super-underground. Be aware that men holding hands with each other aren't gay in this culture. People are very rough on lesbians. There is a small but supportive gay scene, and they are doing more to win political and civil rights, but this is a conservative culture. - May 2013


Not sure. - Oct 2012


Most people don't judge here. You'll see many young men walking around holding hands. - Sep 2012


from what I've heard, I think there is a decent network for gay men. - Aug 2011


Very closeted culture - Aug 2011


Not great, but getting better. - Sep 2010


Not like a Western city but Delhi has an active gay community and an annual gay parade. Contrary to the last post, our gay friends (including Indians) did not seem to have an issue. - Aug 2010


NO! If the locals know you are gay or lesbian you will be stoned to death. - Aug 2010


There are many gay/lesbian expats living here. - Mar 2008


Male/male physical contact is a very common sight but it's just a show of friendship. With the things I know about India, I would not advise public displays of gay/lesbian affection. - Feb 2008


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